Step 5 – Spotting Women that are seeking a friend with benefits – not a boyfriend.

Step 5There are all sorts of women looking to hook up for a variety of reasons on casual dating and sex buddy sites. Spotting the ones that want a “friend with benefits” and not a boyfriend isn’t as easy as you think.

Reasons Woman Join Sex Buddy Sites

Being single for too long These woman haven’t tried a casual dating site but decided to give it a go because they haven’t had sex in months and are super horny.

The recent breakup. These woman are hurting and want a rebound fuck ease their pain and get over their last love interest.

The closet nympho This women loves sex and needs it all the time but doesn’t want those closest to her i.e. roommate or judgmental girlfriends, to know how far she’d go to have something hard between her legs.

Sick of the bar scene d-bags Alcohol induced dick heads have done her in one to many times, and she is looking for a better way to meet some strange.

The insecure 5 or 6 This women has serious image issues. She might be a little chunky, or be physically flawed in some other way. She thinks she isn’t appealing to everyone, and needs sex to feel wanted.

The Down on her luck girl They have had no lucky finding sex elsewhere so willing to give this a go.

Ready to step out These are woman with relationships or Marriage woes, and are ready to see if the grass is greener.

These reasons don’t necessarily mean they are looking for a sex buddy, and it doesn’t mean they will give it up easily either. Determining who is after a friend with benefits, and who isn’t, is easy if you can put them in categories and if your willing to work out what their looking for, you will find what you are looking for!

Some More specific examples – What to look out for

* The girls who are single and ready to mingle are usually on a first time visit, have been single for a while, and wont just fuck the first guy that pays them any attention. Their wary and want to take their time. The usually have pretty high standards because they are probably looking for a boyfriend, but will settle for sex until they can convince you that all this hot sex has to mean something.

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* Breakup babe is easy to hook because she is vulnerable and feeling insecure in her new singledom. She wants to forget her pain, and plenty of sex with guys that she doesn’t care about seems to help with this predicament, but this girl isn’t in it for the long haul! She is licking her wounds, and probably only wants a few fucks from different guys, before going back to her boyfriend or finding a new one, so is probably not worth pursuing for a long term sex buddy arrangement.

* Discretion girl is not easy to bag. She is likely to draw out lengthy communication with potential sex buddies, but could well be worth the wait – you can put her in your list for future liaisons.

* Bar Busters. This kind of girl could take a while to win over due to the fact that she is sick of the idiot looking to pick up in a bar and using free drinks as his hook and her falling for it! Plus fucking too many randoms after consuming too much grog, means she’s more than likely ready for a steady lay and wants a decent guy to fuck her on the regular. To prove yourself, there may be a bit of a time lapse before you get it in, and that could possibly turn into her wanting to take it further than your prepared to go. Potential girlfriend written all over it!
* Easy to bed because they need to shed…These plump girls offer a sure fire way to get a quick lay, and are probably not someone you want to keep in regular rotation. (They would probably be will to do that for you though) But sometimes, desperate times call for desperate measures, and if you want a sure thing it might be worth adding her to your dance card.

* Unlucky Fucky! These ladies are obviously not the cream of the crop because they have exhausted all avenues and cant seem to keep anyone interested for longer than one or two fucks, and online is their only option. She has had little to no luck hooking up offline, and you have to wonder why! However she may just be picky so beware of that, or maybe she has issues and could turn into a head fuck. Probably put her in the too hard basket.

* Married to the slob or relationship blob! This women has very high standards, and wont easily fall into bed. She wants good sex because the sex she’s getting from her significant other sucks! He’s fallen behind the 8 ball due to reasons none of us can even relate too, but lucky you gets to make it all better! Her coming here to find a great lay on the sly is a good option for you! She def doesn’t want it to go further than having you as a friend with benefits, so their wont be any attachment issues. This indicates she might be after a friends with benefits relationship.

3 questions to ask potentials to help you find a sex buddy.

1. Why did you join (Site Name)?
2. How has your love life been recently?
3. Are most of your past lovers good in bed?

These are fantastic ice breakers because they give away her intentions. The first question being the most important because you can gauge right away her true intention. If she replies with something like “to meet that special someone” RUN. If she says that she’s not really sure why she signed up, that’s is also a really bad sign. But if she says she wants to pay back her EX, or she is sex deprived, its a clear sign she is DTF.

The second two questions are there to find out about her past. This is valuable information so you know what to focus on and what to avoid. Take what she divulges and shape yourself into the man she is looking for.

The final questions serves as a way to bring the conversation to a discussion about sex. You want a girl that is looking for a sex buddy or a friend with benefits, a girl that that is secure enough to discuss past sexual experiences. It also provides valuable information about what she likes and what she does not like in the sack. Use this information and avoid doing anything her past lovers did that annoyed her. You want want this to turn into a log lasting sexual relationship so its important she enjoys the sex and wants more!

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