{"id":505,"date":"2014-09-04T00:34:18","date_gmt":"2014-09-04T00:34:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/friendswithbenefitsguide.com\/?p=505"},"modified":"2024-09-05T03:02:05","modified_gmt":"2024-09-05T03:02:05","slug":"pros-and-cons-of-getting-married","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/friendswithbenefitsguide.com\/index.php\/pros-and-cons-of-getting-married\/","title":{"rendered":"Pros &#038; Cons Of Getting Married &#8211; Why Having Friends With Benefits Is The Way To Go"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-507\" src=\"https:\/\/friendswithbenefitsguide.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/Pros-Cons-Of-Getting-Married-Why-Having-Friends-With-Benefits-Is-The-Way-To-Go.jpg\" alt=\"Pros-&amp;-Cons-Of-Getting-Married---Why-Having-Friends-With-Benefits-Is-The-Way-To-Go\" width=\"400\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/friendswithbenefitsguide.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/Pros-Cons-Of-Getting-Married-Why-Having-Friends-With-Benefits-Is-The-Way-To-Go.jpg 400w, https:\/\/friendswithbenefitsguide.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/Pros-Cons-Of-Getting-Married-Why-Having-Friends-With-Benefits-Is-The-Way-To-Go-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/friendswithbenefitsguide.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/Pros-Cons-Of-Getting-Married-Why-Having-Friends-With-Benefits-Is-The-Way-To-Go-250x187.jpg 250w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/>If you are getting older and beginning to see everyone around you couple up for the long term, you may be considering <a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/2014\/01\/15\/ready-to-settle-down-_n_4557373.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">whether it is time for you to settle down<\/a>. If you have a friends with benefits relationship that is going along fantastically, you may be wondering if it may be a good thing to take it to the next level. Before you make that serious of a decision, it is best to weigh all the options, and the pros and cons of putting a kibosh to your current love situation. There are many <a href=\"http:\/\/www.life123.com\/relationships\/friendship\/friends-with-benefits\/the-pros-and-cons-of-friends-with-benefits.shtmlhttp:\/\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">advantages to the friends with benefits<\/a> relationship that will get stomped on if you decide to take it to a more serious level.<br \/>\n<br clear=\"all\" \/><\/p>\n<h3>The pros and cons of getting married versus a friends with benefits relationship\u2026<\/h3>\n<p><b>Pro<\/b><br \/>\nWhen you get married you are in a stable relationship. There is something very secure feeling about knowing that there is one person in your life that you can depend on. When you get married you know that there will be someone at your side to listen, to help you, and best of all, to do your laundry. We weren\u2019t meant to be alone in life, and having someone by your side can be a very reassuring feeling.<\/p>\n<p><b>Con<\/b><br \/>\nWhen you have a friends with benefits relationship you are able to have the security of having them around when you want them, but not having to deal with them when you don\u2019t. Not only are they great for sex, but you are also friends. They will care about you, but not demand so much of your time. When you need them you can call, but they <a href=\"http:\/\/www.eharmony.com\/dating-advice\/dating\/signs-you-may-be-smothering-your-partner\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">won\u2019t smother you <\/a>by being there all day, every day. In a nutshell a friend with benefits will go home.<\/p>\n<p><b>Pro<\/b><br \/>\nWhen you get married you can have sex anytime you want. Unlike having to find a person in a bar you don\u2019t have to worry about the next time you can have sex. You sleep with someone every night and there is the potential to have sex whenever you want it. When you are married you never have to worry who you are going to sleep with, your wife is there when you want sex.<\/p>\n<p><b>Con<\/b><br \/>\nA wife isn\u2019t always going to want to have sex when you do. Don\u2019t assume that your wife is going to be into you all the time. As time goes on, she is probably going to be less into you. That means that although she is there, there is no guarantee that you are going to get laid. It can actually work against you. If she isn\u2019t in the mood, you can\u2019t go out and find someone else. When you have a friends with benefits relationship if your friend isn\u2019t in the mood you can find someone who is <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/meetanaffair.com\/spice-up-your-love-life-top-affair-websites\/\">top affair sites<\/a><\/strong>. You aren\u2019t beholden to just one woman. You can call her when you want to have sex and if she isn\u2019t into it you have no obligation to wait until she is, you can just find someone else.<\/p>\n<p><b>Pro<\/b><br \/>\nSex can get better over time as you get comfortable with each other and are able communicate with one another. Many couples report that <a href=\"http:\/\/www.menshealth.com\/sex-women\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">sex in a relationship<\/a> continues to get better with age.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/4jtoQ8F6K2Y\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><b>Con<\/b><br \/>\nYou can become worn out and tired with each other when you get married. Being with the same woman for the rest of your life can sound really unexciting with reason. There is no greater thrill than being with someone new for the first time. When you get married that part of sex will never be there again. If you stick with a <a href=\"http:\/\/psychcentral.com\/lib\/friends-with-benefits-can-women-handle-it\/0002860\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">friends with benefits arrangement<\/a> you are still able to have sex with new people whenever you want. That means you get the best of sex with your friend, and you can have sex with new people. If one of the advantages to a wife is that sex gets better as you age, sex with your friends with benefits will get better as you get comfortable, so that wipes out all the benefit to getting married.<\/p>\n<p>Although there is stability and comfort in getting married, it just doesn\u2019t make sense if you have a friends with benefits situation. 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